"When Jesus therefore had received the vinegar; he said, It is finished: and he bowed his head, and gave up the ghost" (John 19:30).
The Father in heaven so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son. It was the love of the Father that sent the Son into our world to die for mankind. The Father and Son and Spirit were in perfect agreement that the eternal Son should die for the sins of the world. We are not wrong to believe - and proclaim - that while Mary's Son, Jesus, died alone, terribly alone, on that Cross, the loving heart of God the Father was as deeply pained with suffering as was the heart of the holy, dying Son.
We must ask our Lord to help us comprehend what it meant to the Trinity for the Son to die alone on the Cross. When the holy father had to turn His back on the dying Son by the necessity of divine justice, I believe the pain for the Father was as great as the suffering of the Saviour as He bore our sins in His body. When the soldier drove that Roman spear into the side of Jesus, I believe it was felt in heaven.
Well might the sun in darkness hide
And shut His glories in,
When Christ, the Mighty Maker, died
For man, the creature's sin.
~A. W. Tozer~